**A Post by Shifra**

There are some very compelling stories of people on the Left who “saw the light” and became Conservatives. Tammy’s story immediately comes to mind (See “The New Thought Police,” “The Death of Right and Wrong,” and “The New American Revolution.”) David Horowitz, David Mamet, the late and sorely missed Andrew Breitbart — great stories, all.

Mine? Not so much.

As a matter of fact, I hesitate to tell you anything about this. Maybe you think I had some amazing epiphany, some phenomenal life-changing experience that propelled me to become a Conservative. Why shatter your illusions?

Well, because the election is in less than fifty days, and I want to make a point.

Although I was born in NYC and I now live here, I grew up in Washington DC. My parents did not work for the government, but they were very interested in politics. It seemed as though they were always reading newspapers (Washington Post, of course, but others too, both English and Yiddish ones) and discussing some article they had read. I read the WaPo too, but only the comics pages, and the sports page, to see where my beloved and beleaguered Washington Senators stood. And the obituary pages. (What can I say? I was a strange child.)

And then there was their fascination with a show that struck fear in the hearts of us kids: Meet the Press. It meant No TV during that dreaded hour. Protest was futile: “Go read a book,” was their response. It was even worse in the car, when they listened on the radio. “But ‘Yours Truly, Johnny Dollar’ is on!” I would plead. (Those were the days of great radio shows: Gunsmoke, The Lone Ranger, FBI in Peace and War, to name a few.)

My parents were Classical Liberals. (Those were the days when you could be a liberal and still believe in American exceptionalism.) They were Democrats. Everyone I knew was a Democrat. But I did not understand their interest in politics. To me, it was all one big baseball game. Sometimes the Democrats were at bat, and the Republicans had to stand in the field. Then after four, sometimes eight years, it was the Republicans’ turn at bat.

I will now fast-forward to 1976. I voted for Jimmy Carter. Because I was a Democrat.

In 1980, a few months before the election, I was shopping at a local supermarket. The father of one of my friends, Rabbi Cohen, saw me, and he walked over. I said hello. Just to be polite. But Rabbi Cohen had something on his mind.

“So, who are you voting for?” he asked. What an odd question, I thought. Did it really matter?

“Oh, I’m voting for the Democrat.”

Rabbi Cohen was quiet for a minute. “I see,” he said. Then he added, “Why?”

“Why?” I repeated. “Yes,” he pressed, “why are you voting for the Democrat?”

“Because,” I explained, “I’m a Democrat.”

I did not like where this was going. I did not want to talk politics. Our youngest child was now in school, and I had decided to switch careers, from teacher to psychologist. Competition for Ph.D. clinical psychology programs in the NYC area was fierce, and between studying for the GRE’s, applying to graduate schools, making sure the kids did their homework, etc., I had no interest in anything else.

But Rabbi Cohen was persistent. “Ah, I see. You are voting for the Democrat because you are a Democrat.” I hoped he didn’t think I was as stupid as I sounded.

He continued. “I have a suggestion for you. How about trying something new? How about voting for Ronald Reagan?”

“The REPUBLICAN?” I was astonished. “Why would I do that?”

“So, you enjoyed the long gas lines?” he asked. No, of course not. But was he blaming President Carter for the gas shortage?

“And you like the 21% interest rates?” No, I didn’t like that either. Our car was falling apart, but it was difficult to get a car loan, and the high interest rates made payments difficult, too. But that was also the President’s fault?

He continued. “I see I haven’t convinced you yet. So here’s something else: Ronald Reagan will be better for Israel.”

I didn’t want to argue with him, but this really sounded preposterous. A Republican would be better for Israel!?

“So, you’ll vote for Reagan?”

“Yeah,” I said. I wanted this conversation to end.

“Not good enough,” said Rabbi Cohen. “Look me in the eye and promise me you’ll vote for Ronald Reagan.”

There was no way out of this. I looked him in the eye and promised to vote for Ronald Reagan.

On Election Day, I got into the voting booth, and put my hand on the Democrat lever.
Then I put my hand down. I remembered I had promised Rabbi Cohen that I would vote for Reagan.

But I did not like being told what to do. And it wasn’t a “real” promise, anyway. I had been coerced. I put my hand back on the Democrat lever.

I put my hand down again. Then I quickly grabbed the Republican lever, and voted.

There were no more gas lines. Interest rates dropped. We got a new car. The economy was booming. I was now a Republican.

In 1992, I did not vote for Clinton. Because I was a Republican. But I remember Election Night. Bill and Hillary, walking together, through a crowd of well-wishers. They looked so happy. The band played “Don’t Stop Thinking About Tomorrow.” Fleetwood Mac. Very cool. My generation was taking over.

I was shocked at the first rumors of Bill Clinton’s behavior in the Oval Office. I tuned in when Hillary went on the Today Show, to defend her husband. She spoke about the “vast right wing conspiracy” that was “conspiring against him” from the day he announced his candidacy.

If you remember this, dear reader, you were probably wondering who would be gullible enough to fall for Hillary’s “explanation”.

That would be me.

It made sense. It was all dirty politics, trying to destroy the President of the United States.

But I remember mulling over the “vast right wing conspiracy” thing. Who were these people? Where did they live? Did they all gather in some secret place? Did they have a secret handshake?

It was after hearing the all-too credible testimony of Kathleen Willey and Juanita Broaddrick that I realized: We had a sociopath in the White House.

Around that time, my husband came home from work one day, and handed me a magazine.

“I saw this at a midtown-Manhattan newsstand. Looks interesting. Thought you might like it.” It was called The Weekly Standard.

I read the first article. I don’t remember the topic. But I do remember that it resonated very powerfully. I read the entire magazine.

“Who publishes this?” I asked.

“A Conservative group,” said husband.

“A Conservative group? O.M.G !” I gasped.

What?’ said husband, somewhat alarmed.

“You know that ‘vast right wing conspiracy’? It’s…US!”

I was thinking about these things, a few weeks ago, after getting a call from my sister. She sounded happy. “I got another one!” she said. I immediately knew what she meant. She has been talking to everyone at work who voted for Obama. One by one, she is convincing them to vote Republican. This last one, a woman who seemed mesmerized by O, was a tough sell. I had told my sister to conserve her energy, maybe let this one go. But when this woman shared with her co-workers that her mother had Alzheimer’s, my sister zeroed in. Gave her some articles about the real nature of senior healthcare under Obamacare. The woman was stunned. “I thought it meant free healthcare for everyone,” she said. “I cannot vote for him again,” she told my sister.

My parents have both passed away, but I wonder what they would make of all of this, their children so focused on the political scene. The stack of newspapers (WSJ, IBD, and downloaded articles from the TamWire, NewsWire, and conservative news sites) in my home. And Meet the Press? The show is programmed into our DVR. And when I’m in the car, I catch it on Bloomberg Radio.

Here’s the point I want to make: I don’t pay attention to the polls. Because everywhere I go, people are paying attention. People are outraged. I see it everywhere. I see it on twitter. From @Jewpublican to @GayConservativs. Countless Evangelical Christians. From @Blackrepublican to @VicVow, who tweets me, “Thanks for following a nice Catholic boy like me.” I get tweets and Direct Messages: “Hey @NYJooo, thanks for being part of the fight to take our country back.”

This is what I think: Nov. 6 is going to be like a volcano erupting. I can feel the tremors.

But as Tammy says, we can’t leave anything to chance. So this is what we need to do: speak to people you know. Make phone calls for the Romney campaign. Tell them what the WSJ says about another four years of Obama:

Let’s dispense with the obvious: An Obama second term will be foremost about higher taxes and greater spending. The president has been clear about the former and will consider victory in November a mandate to raise taxes on higher-income Americans and small businesses—at the least.

Meanwhile, no matter how the coming budget sequester sorts out, nobody should forget why it came into being: It was the result of Mr. Obama’s refusal to consider any real changes to Social Security or Medicare. There will be no reason to budge in a second term. Absent reform to these drivers of debt, and given Mr. Obama’s ambitions to further “invest” in education, energy and infrastructure, a second term means proposals for even broader and bigger tax hikes—and not just for his favorite targets. Continued and growing deficits are likely as well…It is likely the Supreme Court will offer up another vacancy, and Mr. Obama might finally have his chance to shift the balance of the court. A slew of appellate-court positions are also in limbo as the campaign proceeds; they would be filled by a second-term Obama.

Just as important are the things Mr. Obama will not do. His record gives no indication he will revive America’s leadership in free trade. Nor is he likely to restore America’s influence in the international arena. And so we will inch closer to a nuclear-armed Iran and the threats that the regime will pose to international peace and order.

There are still those who are undecided, still some people who are not aware of the consequences of this election. People like… well, like me, back in 1980.

Rabbi Cohen passed away, years ago. But I am sure he would approve.

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  1. LucyLadley says:

    Rabbi Cohen had a real love for the USA & Israel. He spoke up for both countries & his love for them. Yes, Shifra, I’m sure Rabbi Cohen would have approved for your writing this story. I’m sure G-d has listened to your & Rabbi Cohen’s prayers for the USA & Israel. Thank You Shifra for being a foot soldier, you are a patriotic example for all of us.

  2. lawmom90 says:

    Very deeply moving, Shifra. I am ashamed that I didn’t pay closer attention to politics when I was younger, even though I had the benefit of being well-read and living in a house similar to yours. We were pressed on current events, made to watch 60 minutes and the evening news. My parents were very conservative and very much for Reagan. Jimmy Carter’s presidency sunk my dad’s attempt at having his own business, albeit it was just an owner/operator 18-wheeler. But people like my dad are the backbone of this nation. I grew up believing in the value of hard work. I took help at different periods of my life. Even for a short time in my late teens, when I had a benefactor who helped me decide to go to law school, I fell into the trap of “entitlement.” He gave me some money toward tuition and made me promise to work hard and succeed. I grew to feel more comfortable about asking him for money. After the second time, he rebuked me and said “This money is for your education, not for frills, such as a new car.” I appreciate that he called me down like that. It made me realize again that I had to work for what I have. He was being an adult, knowing that I was still a child in many ways. I stuck with my schooling and became a lawyer, as you know. Believe it or not, in 1981, it was still pretty unheard of for girls to go to law school. I thank God for that man who believed in me and encouraged me. I wish the liberal left knew the value of mentoring. As well as many other positive traits of successful people. Thanks again Shifra for sharing your story.

  3. RuBegonia says:

    Take the Shifra challenge and make the effort to educate a friend like Shifra’s sister did, with a custom message to peak the curiosity and the right tools, like an article or book that highlights real solutions ~ it beats screaming over the Thanksgiving turkey and just may shake up a few pre-conceived notions.

    • otlset says:

      I sure hope I’m able to enjoy this year’s Thanksgiving dinner.

      It will probably taste like ashes in my mouth as I sullenly ‘give thanks’ if this is the headline Nov. 7: “Obama Wins Historic Second Term!”.

  4. LJZumpano says:

    I for one am glad Rabbi Cohen happened to meet up with our Shifra. Can’t imagine what this current battle would be like without her by our side. The good rabbi tossed a pebble into the pond, and the ripples continue to spread.

  5. flaggman says:

    So glad a Rabbi could break the spell of your default liberalism! (My liberal Reform rabbis couldn’t break the spell of my inherent conservatism, thank God…so now I’ve left the Reform movement, just made that break a couple of weeks ago.) I think you’re right: I just can’t imagine that, with all of us Rabbi Cohens out there, Obama won’t lose enough voters to lose re-election.

  6. Alain41 says:

    Thank you for the story Shifra. Wonderful.

    My short story; in 1980, I was living in Illinois and was going to vote for IL favorite son, John Anderson. I didn’t like Carter (hostages, gas lines, and he was preachy not in a good way) and I didn’t believe Reagan was anything more than a Californian Biden (due to constant media barrage and being not too long out of eastern college), but then the media made a mistake. The day before the election, they announced that polls showed that the election was too close to call and I freaked, omg, Carter might be reelected. I voted for Reagan.

  7. midget says:

    My shameful past is that I voted for Carter TWICE. My excuse is that “youth is wasted on the young”. I wish I had had Shifra’s good common sense and her decency of keeping a promise. The combo of Shifra and Tammy, God and the Tams gives me real hope and change.

  8. Cernunnos81 says:

    Ah Shifra, the blessed Rabbi Cohen did what All rabbis should do, he made you think. It wasn’t right away and it took time for the thinking to fully develope, but think you did. He offered you a few little clues, minor things in the grand scheme, and those little things made you think about Bigger things and the decision you made because of that promise has grown within you and shaped the lives of many.
    We should all be so lucky as to have a Rabbi Cohen in our lives.

  9. otlset says:

    I think many conservatives usually evolve from being liberals Shifra. +

    I gradually turned conservative here in California (awakening from years of public school and media indoctrination) at the same time the state itself was turning liberal. I remember voting for Carter, and also Democrat Tom Bradley for governor, both of whom lost of course in the then conservative ‘golden state’. As I gained my own small business since then, I gradually came to realize the truth of who produces and puts into the system, and who doesn’t produce but instead takes from the system, and the economic balancing act between the two sides. And as a producer, I realized conservatism is the true way to economic and social prosperity. But dang it, my votes are still largely on the losing side here!

  10. MACVEL says:

    I’m sure God has kept for himself 7,000 Democrats who have not bowed their knee before Obama. The problem is that He hasn’t told us where they are!

  11. Shifra says:

    TAMS, you never disappoint with your thoughtful comments! 🙂

  12. JuanitaDugas says:

    Interesting story of your ‘conversion’ Shifra; thanks for sharing. Like you, I grew up in a Democrat household, only in Louisiana, but had no Republican influences like your Rabbi Cohen. Being Catholic, I was raised with pro-life conservative values. While I turned 18 in 1964 and registered Democrat, I had no interest whatsoever in politics or the elections that year so didn’t vote. By the 1970 elections, I was married, my Marine husband had served a tour in Viet Nam and I understood how politics directly affected our lives so I voted Republican/Nixon. However, my proudest vote was for Ronald Reagan in 1980 and he influences me still today. BTW it was your conscience and an implied promise kept that pulled that lever in 1980. Good for you!

  13. Di.Grace says:

    Friends don’t let friends vote Democrat. Great article Shifra and well written. Let’s see…you’re a former teacher–you are now a psychologist, wife, mom, grandmother, astute assistant to Tammy and potential stand-up comedian. One has to be smart to be a good comedian. Not trying to butter you up just stating the facts. 🙂

  14. geezee says:

    thank God, shifra was smart enough to rely on the Rabbi’s intelligence, and trust him. the youngest of my 3 daughters(19) leans lib cuz she has gay friends & says he’s for gay marriage. i remind her O never saw an abortion he couldn’t love. (also, a liberal order of nuns taught her high school @ $15+k a year! …i am reversing that part, slow but sure, but the education was excellent). we discuss (she’s a smartie pants, thank you God, so will have a very mature discussion with me).. and i’m practically wrestling her to the ground to vote in this election. she won’t vote for O but thinks she will not vote. my argument at this point is “do you trust me?” (yes) … and “you have to trust me on this one and vote RR cuz if not, you will live to regret it for a lifetime.” she knows i don’t speak frivolously about such things. i’ve texted all 3 of them today (at colleges) to make SURE they watch ALL of the debates, starting tonight. 19 promises me she will (and she will). a byword: who we are to young people matters; that Rabbi changed the course of Shifra’s life (thank you Rabbi Cohen!), I’m guessing it was all because Shifra knew him to be someone whose judgement she could trust…

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